I saw my granddaughter Rosabella today for the first time in two and a half years, her mother and my son Paul split up while Chris (other son) was still in hospital, and things have been messy ever since. A few months ago Paul's ex-wife decided that he was not to see Rosabella either- he has been fighting this ever since- solicitors and family courts are involved.
Today Kamilla (Paul's ex) relented enough for Paul and I to visit with Rosabella for a couple of hours, we gave her her, her Christmas presents, which she was allowed to open early, and then left. It is heart breaking.
A few months ago I was considering giving up the fight to see her, but now I have changed my mind, we will support Paul as much as we can.... life can be cr*p at times!