Chris- Update/ lessons in letting go...
Thank you to everyone who prayed for Chris again, his leg is much better now and his blood is slowly returning to the right level.
Chris has decided to stay at Cliff College rather than come home; on Sunday evening I was ready to jump in the car and mount a rescue mission..... but that is not what Chris wanted or to be honest what he needed. I am learning that as a parent of an adult with a serious medical condition I have to let go, he needs to know I am here, but I cannot make decisions for him! He has sensibly organised his week so that he can be involved at just the right level, I have to respect and applaud that....
...and I wonder how often those of us with a strong pastoral call want to launch a rescue mission without really listening to the true needs and desires of those we are seeking to help! Sometimes the best thing we can do for people is to let them go forward, enabling growth might well mean stepping back and praying hard! Chris not only wants, but needs to stay at Cliff, he has taken control.... I have had to let go just a little more!





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